Today was a pretty good day for Cathy. The people at radiology said that Cathy looked and moved the best since they have been seeing her. It isn’t so easy for Cathy to see because she isn’t satisfied. Cathy has always enjoyed exercising and has had a high energy level. It will take a while to build that back. We are now more than half way through the radiology treatments. One day at a time.
I hate to tell you the next story but I’m outnumbered by ladies. So, here goes. On the way from radiology, we had to stop by the grocery store for some food and personal items. I was very comfortable with shopping for my list of fresh fruits and vegetables. I went looking for Lynn as she was working on a different shopping list. I became very uncomfortable on the other end of the store, facing what seemed like a whole isle filled with boxes and boxes and boxes of feminine hygiene products. Then Lynn turned to me, a man, and asked: “What size does Cathy want?” OH, NO! This is way out of my comfort zone. In any case, how in the world should I know? So, although not very funny for me, the ladies seem to find enjoyment in this.
If you think this was too much information, I agree and I’ll try to do better in the future.
4 comments:
Thanks so much for keeping your friends up to date through this blog--so we know how to pray for you and how you're both doing. It's so nice you have Lynn there helping out.
Prayers for you daily.
Barbara
Wished I'd been shopping with you and Lyn just to see your reaction. Very funny.
Keep the humour going, it does help to get you through this difficult time.
Thinking of you both. x
Jayne (Wales, UK).
You know, there are lots of shows about cooking on the Food Network...you may want to schedule some viewing time so you can vary Cathy's menu options. I'm sure she'd appreciate a "pruneless" diet. As Emeril says, "BAM!"
About a year ago, my college roommate was told that his niece had been in a terrible auto accident in Maine. She was in her senior year of high school and was very seriously injured. During her long stay in the hospital, her sister started a blog similar to yours so everyone could keep track of what was happening. Her sister logged everything...both good and bad so people could get a real sense of her sister's struggle and that of the family. Although at times, it was heartbreaking to read about her setbacks it was also heartwarming to read about her courage and progress. As you said, there will be good days and bad days. A "good" day may consist of a few pain free hours or a special smile that you both share. Although these things may seem trivial, many such small "victories" can help to win major battles. You have lots of people in your corner and I hope you can sense their support.
BTW: Kaitlin, the high school girl, attended her graduation with the rest of her class. She was a fighter.
Hey Dan,
Thinking of you from Houston. You and your wife are in my prayers. Your old friend.
Joe
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