Today’s blog is difficult for me to write as our journey continues to be quite an emotional rollercoaster. Cathy’s pain and nausea is now under control. She still has no appetite and isn’t drinking much. Everything continues to be a delicate balance. Tests show that Cathy’s kidneys are in some distress and her blood pressure is quite low. Full kidney function and physical reserves are required to consider chemo treatment. The reality is that Cathy does not have either. Cathy and I have always said that quality of life is of key importance. Quality of life is our real focus now and, with the extent and aggressiveness of Cathy’s cancer, chemo will not improve her quality of life. People at the hospital are beginning to look at possibilities for getting Cathy home or in local hospice care next week. We’ll see what the options are.
We are excited and happy that Christy is able to visit us. We made some quick change of plans and, if flights go well, Christy will be in Boston tomorrow afternoon. Christy’s visit is important to us. David was in Maine recently and the plan is that he will potentially come again to visit next weekend.
Cathy continues to connect with the nursing staff. Connecting with people is a real gift Cathy has. I came to the room after dinner last night to find that a nurse had purchased lifesaver candies for Cathy in order to ease her dry mouth. Early this morning, one of the nurses came in to our room and said “I’m upset because they didn’t schedule me to support you today.” Then around noon the same nurse came back and said with a big smile “Your current nurse gets off at 3pm and I told them that I’m taking over after she leaves so I am scheduled to support you! I also brought some nice smelling lotion from home to rub on your arms too.” Amazing!
7 comments:
Following your blogs closely... Nurses are wonderful human beings. I'm so glad Cathy has touched so many people in such a short time. Best wishes as you consider your options.
Dan, You and Cathy with God's wisdom will make wise decisions. Know that we are praying for you all.
prayers from Lamont, Michigan
Life has certainly thrown what may seem to be an insurmountable challenge at Cathy, you, Christi, and David. Your difficulty in writing about the journey you're all taking in understandable. Many, many people are with you all in spirit. Cathy has not only touched the nursing staff but all of us as well.
Strength to you all.
I am so very concerned for you. Praying.
Cathy and Dan, I read with emotion your latest blog entry. I'm praying that God gives you wisdom and he is merciful to you both. Echoing other comments, Cathy has touched many many lives and we love you both.
Dan and Cathy I am not surprised at how you have touched those around you even during difficult times. I pray for God's increasing strength and Peace upon you. Know that you Loved and lifted up in prayer at all times by your family in Christ.
In His Care,
Ross - FBCY
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